Day 13 of the Emotional Guidance Scale Challenge: Frustration / Impatience / Irritation
Frustration / Impatience / Irritation
Good morning! Well, it’s almost afternoon — as I am late in posting!
Some interesting things are happening with this challenge. No one has called in for the support calls since Thursday night, except for this morning when I had technical problems and missed the one person who did call in. But I consider that a distinction without a difference.
My perspective about what is happening is this: I’m feeling a little worn out from exploring all of these heavier emotions. While each set point gets better and better, I’m discovering that there is a part of me that is feeling a bit Impatient with the process. I’ve wanted to chuck the whole thing a couple of times already. Not that I will or would, but that has come up. I suspect I’m not alone in this…
Part of the Impatience stems from the thought that, regardless of what I say to others when they ask about this, I forget I don’t have to stay at that day’s set point. The POINT is to notice what comes up, move through it, and then move on with the day. And, in moving on with the day, I want to remind myself to move up the EGS and stay there. I know I’m there, by the way, when I’m writing my new story and the words just fly onto the screen.
One other thing — yesterday, I had a big manifestation. The manifestation was a result of asking for something specific then working through the contrasting vibrations that came up, followed by listening to my Higher Self and acting on that inspiration. The inspiration was pretty big and audacious. Following through on it required me to constantly throw the ball back to the Universe saying, “You take care of this.” Otherwise, it would have been too overwhelming.
The way I asked for this something specific was using a process that has been working for me with “smaller” things (parking spaces, lines speeding up, moving through traffic, etc.). In case it inspires anyone else, here is how it works:
- I decide what I want to experience.
- I then imagine what the result of that experience would be — usually on the far end of the experience — the moment just after it manifests.
- I close my eyes (if possible).
- I see myself in what I imagined in #2 above.
- I combine that vision with joy or appreciation or relief (which works well if I can’t find any other emotion).
- I hold that for a few seconds.
- I let it go.
- Whenever a question about it comes up, I let it go again, saying something to myself like, “I know this is handled.” I’ve discovered that I literally have to turn my attention away from it.
- When the manifestation occurs (or something better), I make sure to acknowledge to myself what the Universe brought me through the Law of Attraction. And that it came to me because I stopped, got clear, felt it, and let it go.
This always work. (By the way, I’ve written about this in a slightly different way here.)
As for the specifics of the manifestation, I will just say that it involved money and the completion of an outstanding project. I’m keeping the other details on the QT in order to respect the privacy of at least one person.
OK — Having written all that, I now want to write about my new story:
I now know that I can directly engage the awesome and amazing power of the Universe whenever I want. No longer will I whine or get sulky that I’m not getting what I want. I know I can clearly attract the very thing (or something better) that I’m wanting just by getting quiet and focusing upon it and then letting the Universe do its work.
In fact, I’ve proven this to myself again and again so I’m now going to take my own best advice and engage the Universe more and more in this way. And, if I find a better way, I will use that. I understand, like never before, that each of us has our own way of manifesting and I have found the one that works for me.
As I drop my impatience and understand the power that exists within me, I begin to feel better and better about where I am. I’m not worried about the state of affairs in my life since I know they are always improving. And, I’m definitely not worried about others since I know that they are powerful in their own right and in their own ways and that they are finding out how to tap into that power themselves. So I see my family and my friends as master manifestors and I contribute to their own knowledge of that by seeing them in this way.
I am free to live my life in the way that feels better and better to me. I am free to draw to me the events, circumstances, feelings, thoughts, emotions, and relationships that feel better and better to me. I am free to revel in the knowing that all is well. And that this is not a slogan or a wanna-be statement. All is well means exactly what it says. My life is perfect and it’s getting better and better as I evolve and expand all the while knowing that my Higher Self is walking with me, holding my hand, and whispering in my ear.
Life is wonderful. And so are you!!
WOO HOO!!



As I read your post today,I was sitting here going YES,YES! I’m noticing my impatience in wanting to move through the process faster.I’ve been carrying around these heavier emotions for so many years,like a big,heavy suitcase I keep dragging behind me.I want to move on from these,but sometimes working through the set point has me revisiting it throughout the day.There have been a few times I’ve wanted to chuck the whole thing.Thoughts of ‘Is this REALLY working or am I just fooling myself? What if I’m not doing this right?’ Oh,the tangled web we weave for ouselves!
Writing my new story has been very powerful.I don’t do this everyday,but I wrote a 4 1/2 page story about how my life is since allowing my abundance in,and last night I wrote 3 pages about how my new relationship with abundance looks.Both stories just poured out of me onto the page.Going back to these are powerful pivots for me if I find myself falling back into old habits.I’m using everything I can to keep myself feeling better,and more and more things keep showing up! I just have to get out of my own way!!
Hello fellow challengers. I am not feeling any of these feelings or emotions in regards to money. I am in a good place with that. I feel some irritation in regards to my former boyfriend because of his choice to contact me recently. I thought perhaps this meant we could be friends, but now he has chosen to disappear out of my life again. It is just a slight irritation like a mosquito bite. (only because the work I have done here) My new story is that I had some more to learn from our relationship, like I don’t deserve to be treated that way. So, I’m letting go of the irritation. I am definitely not going to scratch that itch.
This process is so wonderful! I’m very grateful to be a part of it.
Take care,
Debbie